Increasing baby dumping cases all over the nation shown us
this situation can be classified as critical social crisis, many factor will
lead to this situation. The baby dumping can refer to discarding or leaving
alone for extended period of time, a child younger than 12 months of age in a
public or private setting with the extent to dispose of the child. Based on the
police statistic, it shown the increasing of case related to baby in this
country driven to worried situation among the society. This scenario had been
more serious day by day, despite there are lot of information by government or
frighten by the mass media. Even though,
more outcry by the Non Government Organization NGO and the public to compel
stopping this loon action.
In this case, mostly the teenager tend to contribute the
increasing of the baby dumping cases, the elder community is also either
passively or explicitly in this problems. In some case we can read on newspaper
or listen on the screen of mass media baby dispose in improper manner by
irresponsibly person in diverse conditions. A girl gives birth in a school
toilet, the biological parent give a birth in the cheap hotel and leaves it in
rubbish dump site and even worst coercion by their parent when they failed on
consent to accept the baby as their descendent they rather throw the priceless
gift from God than take it as a treasure. The baby diminishes in difference
cruel ways, the way that can perceivably see by the people eye or may not. Sometime it is absurd to human mankind. Isn’t
it?.
Factors of contributing
Family break-up
One of the main factors is the dispute in family institution
between family members, especially by their parent causing the child to be
effected in this kind of situation. Even more, the crisis dragged in a long
term of misunderstanding, fighting and unhappiness. The abruptly change in the
family environment is not something easy to take in their mind compared with
matured elders. It even worst when their parents decided to a divorce, while
their kids still not ready to face the situation to loss any of them in term of
love and protection. Start from this point, they may tend to find the
difference ways to get all what they have lost, yes, the closest members is
from their friend in their education groups at the some case wandering from
online chatting that can easily found in diverse website. The feeling to rely
all the hope and soul toward the person likely in opposite gender without
proper monitoring by the elders may lead to the risk with appreciation love of
their relationship on the cheap hotel room bed or at any place reasonable for
them.
Lack of knowledge
Another factor contributing the increasing of baby dumping
cases is lack of knowledge education, either in moral side or in the religious
side or neither of them is worst situation. Nowadays, we can see, as the
centuries risen parallel as well as the education standard within the civilization,
in positive side, it helping people to more understand about what is surround
us. But in the others side, some of them especially teenager incline to be more
independent with their act on what they gained in their education in school
even higher education standard such university or college, furthermore, the
teenager intend to try something different, or something new, this is the main
aspect why most of the cases related to teenager problem happen in these day.
For instance, by looking at the movie or any book contain unfiltered
information. Without proper knowledge about it, they can easily influence to
put a try or some just said, once only and never again, neglecting the
consequences of their action, the minority of them really slick in manipulating
the knowledge in turning it into their advantage side, the victim referred to
women is in the inverse side, who lack in knowledge, make them susceptible to
such risk.
Poverty
Poverty is also another factor that causes in child dumping
scenario in this country. Poor society welfare system on who are not capable in
financial of taking care child is more favor to dump the baby, this frequently
occurred on adolescence in initial period to start the relationship or intend
to have marriage. Political condition, such as difficulty in adoption
proceedings, may also contribute to child dumping, as can the lack of
institution, such as orphanage, to take in children whom their parent incapable
to support, furthermore, when the responsible society has failed to convince
the people and make them realize the important to save the precious life of
babies before it become plague in our community. Societies with strong social
structures and liberal adoption laws tend to have lower rates of child dumping.
Rape
Moreover, rape case can classified more baffling, it still
happen in this millennium century, copying our ancient custom even conscience
of human mankind repulse it. In some incest case it happen by among the family
descent, now we can read in the front of news, the people we can trust most,
betray us in such that disgraceful manner. Or it may happen by molestation
force of others culprit others than family members toward the victim.
Subsequently, the victim are not willing to do that so, consequently causing them
not to welcome the baby in their pregnancy. After the tri-semester of pregnancy
of waiting they will be conducive to diminish the baby, claim it as blessedness child. The hatred to the culprit interprets to risk the baby life, by tendency
to abandon it somewhere out of their sign.
Psychological Force
Psychologists believe the force by closest members or family
can cause the drastic change of action and disturbing the human morality
thinking. Even the initial instinct are totally object to their compel action. As
a mother, it is hard to accept, if they are genuinely intend to act such that
cruel activity, to dump baby after bring it in their pregnancy in almost three
quarter of year. Even though, the small agitation and compulsion from the
people around them distract or convince them to finish the life of innocent
baby in such irritation mannerism. For instance, when the parent forces their
kid to abortion the baby, afraid of the slander by the villager and their
community surround. Either, intrude by the partner of sinful relationship to
force them to terminate the baby life in any mean, to avoid their sinful action
traced by peoples around them.
Prevention
Sexuality Education
Baby dumping presumably results from unwanted pregnancy. To
prevent baby dumping plague in our community, it is therefore ultimately
necessary to educate the individual person especially adolescence concern to
sexuality action, what is the sexuality scope, and what is the aftermath of
misuse in the sexuality activity. This
responsible is not only put on the shoulder of a teacher, but the family
institution should be concerned about the importance to bring this topic up to
the dining table, before it will become trend in our community.
Responding to Unwanted Pregnancy
Individuals experiencing unwanted pregnancies must receive,
support and services. Communities should examine their capacity to provide the
range of supports and services needed by individuals experiencing unwanted
pregnancies. These services must also be publicized, people will unable to use
the services that they do not know about. Existing this alternative may help to
reduce the increasing of baby dumping cases in this country.
Moral support
Finally, the intervention of people surround is play the
main influenced to help those kinds of people before them already too far to
find the turning back. Mostly, the cases related to baby dumping is begin from
lack of moral support from relative and family members, convert a despise into
a support to help them find the correct way to finish what they just started. Teenagers
are sometime tending to take a fastest way without in reasonable solution to
their problem, here the support is playing the role to guide them rather than
exclude them out of the community. To bring an intact community, everyone of
single person in the community must take the plausible action, because the
mistake happen inside is the reagent to be strengthening the community.
Courtesy from:-
http://www.harian-metro-online.com/tag/pembuangan-bayi
http://hussain-english.blogspot.com/
http://www.loyarburok.com/2012/07/31/rise-baby-dumping-malaysia/
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