What Is Bullying & Abusing Is All About

We would like to share with all of our reader through the plucky discussion about the topic that familiarly listen begin from we at the school chair, where we studying how to understanding what this life is spinning about. Isn’t? Abusing and bullying among people that were innocent, we can hear this issues spreading all over the nation taken life despite a dignity of peoples. Recently, we just shocked with an immoral incident, result a female medical student from downtown of New Delhi city perish as incest victim thirteen days after the incident.  Afterward, the eye of the world was scrutinize to this second most populous country in this world, rise the provoking in every continent of this globe. Her died awakened the nation, raise the voice of people criticize government of Republic of India to curb in such of incident. Before, we go through more about this topic. We will let you to recognize the word behind this topic. What is abusing and what is bully in the other hand:-

Abusing

Main Entry: abuse a.bused. a.bus.ing. a.bus.es

Part of Speech: verb

Definition: physically hurt or injure

        Abuse is the improper usage or treatment for a bad purpose, often to unfairly or improperly gain benefit. Abuse can come in many forms, such as physical or verbal maltreatment, injury, sexual assault, violation, rape, unjust practices, wrongful practice or custom offence, crime or otherwise verbal aggression.

Synonym: bang up, beat up, bung up, corrupt, cut up, damage, defile, deprave, desecrate, harm, hose, ill-treat, impair, maltreat, mishandle.

Note: abuse carries with it some sense of harm, misuse refers to an incorrect use that may not lead to harm, to misuse is to use something wrongly, to abuse is to misuse something so badly that you damage it.

Types of abusing

Scopes of abusing

1.      Verbal Abusing

-          Verbal abuse is one of commonly type of abusing occur within the community. It often involve “put heads down” and name-calling in intend to humiliate and make their victim feel, they does not deserve a respect. They used to claim it as a joke, but the joking sense is detour nowhere. Verbal abuse is sometime hard to recognize as a treat, therefore it can go in extend causing the victim lose their self-esteem, and the courage to walk to better life, because their memory in their head is frightening them, they always inferior beneath the others people.

2.       Psychological Abuse

-          This abuse rather known as mental abuse or emotional abuse, by manipulating the person sense of reality, dissipate the victim with information or kind of word, so the victim can easily tend to listen to their words by controlling some of the information that can lead to cause the victim to plunge. Psychological abuse often contains strong emotionally manipulated content, designed to causing the victim to compromise to their wishes.

3.      Physical Abuse

-          Physical abusing occurs when one person uses physical pain or any type of threat, such physical force or body contact to intimidate another person. The simple abuse may start from a simple slap or pushes, or it may involve a full on physical beating completely covered with punching, kicking, hair pulling, scratching, and real physical damage sufficient in some cases to require medical examination. In particularly rapid violent, people can die from the injuries they sustain while being physically abused. Physical abuse is abusive whether bruise or physical damage occurs or not. Physical abuse may involve the mere threat of physical violence if the victim does not comply with wishes of the abuser, and still be considered physical abuse.

4.      Sexual abuse

-          Sexual abuse perpetrated by the abuser in any condition whether the victim is children or adults includes any sort of unwanted sexual contact toward the victim. Inappropriate touching intends in any molestation or incest with or without intercourse, and partner or date rape is all instances of sexual abuse. Sexual abuse also occurs if one partner has agreed to a certain level of sexual activity and another level is forced upon them without any prior consent being given. Sexual abuse is often coupled with physical abuse as low as a threat of physical abuse and emotional abuse. For instance, pedophile child molesters will often threaten harm to their victims or to someone or something their victim cares about in order to their victims or something their victim cares about in order to compel that victim to remain silent about the sexual abuse or in some cases to convince the victim that they asked for it in some way.

5.      Hate Crime

 -          This type of abuse in involving verbal, physical, emotional, or sexual abuse toward an individual or a group of individuals based solely on some characteristic they may share in common with others such as their religious or sexual affiliations or the color of their skin. It can also refer on putting blame to something that has occurred, believed to occur or it was never occurred because they share some characteristic with those alleged action have been involved in the upsetting event.

6.      Neglect

-          Neglect occurs when the person fails to provide for the basic needs of one or more dependent victims, responsible for basic need includes adequate or appropriate food, shelter, clothing, hygiene, or even love or care. The idea of neglect presupposes that the neglectful person is capable of being responsible in the first place. For example, it is neglect when a parent fails to care for their child adequately. It is still neglect when a parent is unable to provide for their children despite their best efforts due to extreme poverty or illness, but neglect is perhaps mitigated by the circumstances. Neglect can only on dependent person, and it most typically involves children or wife dependent elders who are not taken care of properly by their families or caregivers.

Bully

Main Entry: bully bul.lies

Part of Speech: noun

Definition: domineering person

        A bully is someone responsible for bullying, a form of aggressive behavior manifested by the use of force or coercion to affect others.

Synonym: annoyer, antagonize, browbeater, bulldozer, coercer, harrier, hector, insolent, intimidator, oppressor, persecutor, pest, rascal, rowdy, tease.

Types of bully

Scopes of bullying

1.      Verbal bullying

-          Verbal bullying is name calling, making it offensive remarks, or joking about a person’s religion, gender, ethnicity, socioeconomic status, or the way they look. Verbal aggression is when a bully teases someone. It can also include a bully making verbal threats of violence or aggression is when a bully teases someone. It can also include a bully making verbal threats of violence or aggression against someone’s personal property.

2.      Physical bullying

-          Physical contact that would hurt or injure a person like hitting, kicking, or punching the victim. Otherwise, taking something that belongs to someone else and destroying it would also be considered as a type of physical bullying.

3.      Indirect bullying

-          Includes spreading rumors or stories about someone, telling others about something that was told you as secret. Or it can also describe as hearsay spread over the group involve, sometime it will cause the victim to put the face down because of embarrassing.

4.      Social alienation

-          Social alienation is when bully excluded someone from a group on purpose. It also includes a bully spreading rumors, and also making fun of someone by pointing out their weakness or differences.

5.      Intimidation

-          Intimidation is when a bully threatens someone else and frightens that person enough to make them obey to what the bully want.

6.      Cyber bullying

-          Cyber bullying is related to the action of some kind of person who manipulating the information using electronic media by purpose to make the victim afraid, or feeling discomfort toward something.

Anti Bullying Movement

-          In the 2000s-2010s, a cultural movement against bullying gained the popularity in the English-speaking world.

·         National Bullying Prevention Week – Declared in Canada, year 2000.

·         Act Against Bullying – Declared in UK, year 2003.

·         National Bullying Prevention Month – Declared in US, year 2006.

Target

-          A typical victim is likely to be aggressive, lack social skills, think negative thought, and experience difficulties in solving social problems, come from a negative family, problem in adapting school and school environment.

Effect of Bullying

-          Research which indicate that individuals, whether child or adult. Who are persistently subjected to abusive behavior are at risk of stress related illness which can sometimes laed to suicide. The victim who suffers for a long term can cause to emotional and behavioral problems. Lead to low self-esteem and increased susceptibility to illness.

Intervention

-          Despite the large number of individuals who do not approve of bullying, there are very few who will intervene on behalf of a victim. Most people remain as bystander and may accept the bullying or even support the bully. There are many reasons why they choose to do not to intervention. They may realize the act to intervene may generally present danger to someone else, they may also worry that they risk becoming next victim through intervention. This though motivated them to stand silent and be a passive observer or even a supporter for a bully.

Here is the depiction of the story behind the scene.

Courtesy from: Wikipedia.org

Referances

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2012_Delhi_gang_rape_case

http://library.thinkquest.org/07aug/00117/typesbullying.html

http://www.mentalhelp.net/poc/view_doc.php?type=doc&id=8476

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bullying